I don’t know about you, but as a mum, I always struggle to decide if I should do something for myself or not.
If I have to choose between family and me-time, I’d always go with family. Self-care feels like an indulgence, and before I know it, it’s the first thing to fall off my to-do list.
But what if we made it fun? Something we actually look forward to, without any guilt or hesitation? Would we still deprioritise our personal self-care?
Let’s run anexperiment and make self-care something that serves us, not something we have to justify.
So, how about we create a pool of self-care ideas that inspire us, don’t feel like a chore, and inject a little humour into our busy lives? Here are a few to get started.
1. Stay in Your Pyjamas for As Long As You Can
I don’t know about you, but I usually feel compelled to change out of my pyjamas as soon as I wake up.
But this month, I’m trying something new: staying in my pyjamas for as long as possible. Not because I don’t care how I look, but because I want to feel cosy and comfy—especially now that it’s getting colder. Why not?
2. Skip the Hairbrush (Yes, Really!)
Instead of my usual hairbrush routine, I’m just going to run my fingers through my hair and throw it up in a messy bun.
Why?
Because it doesn’t matter! I’m more focused on how I feel than what others think. I’ll even get my kids’ opinions—if they approve, it’s good enough. If not, I’ll try again (maybe).
3. Watch More TV Without Guilt
I know, I know—everyone says to cut down on screen time. But it’s October, and it’s getting chilly. My body’s feeling more sluggish, and honestly, I think I deserve a little extra couch time.
So, this month, I’m going to find a movie that makes me happy and watch it, guilt-free. Laundry can wait, right? Maybe the fairies will come fold it while I relax. (Hey, a girl can dream!)
4. Let the Kids Help More
Okay, this one’s a bit brave. But this month, I’m going to let my kids do more around the house—things like setting the table, brushing their own teeth, and getting themselves dressed for school. Sure, the tights might be inside out and the shirts might clash, but does it really matter?
It’s time to let go a little and trust that they can handle it.
5. Stop Stressing About Overbooking
Here’s a controversial one: I’m going to stop stressing over the small stuff, like double-booking or missing appointments. Case in point—last night, I realised I scheduled my youngest’s dance class at the same time as a playdate I planned weeks ago. I couldn’t sleep!
But this month, I’m going to be upfront and tell the other mum that we’re prioritising dance class right now. Playdates can wait.
6. Worry Less About Everything
As mums, we’re pros at worrying.
But what has all that worrying ever really accomplished? It just makes me anxious.
After watching Inside Out 2 this weekend (yes, even Disney gets it!), I realised how much I let emotions run my life since becoming a mum.
So, this month, I’m focusing on joy. I’m going to enjoy the changing leaves, the crisp autumn air, and find the comfiest shoes for long walks with the family. Because life’s too short not to embrace the beauty around us.
Final Thoughts Humorous Self-Care Ideas
Self-care doesn’t have to be complicated or feel like a luxury. It’s about making small, joyful choices that remind us to take care of ourselves too.
Whether it’s staying in your pyjamas a little longer, cutting yourself some slack, or letting your kids take on a little more responsibility, these small steps can make a big difference.
So, take a moment, breathe, and remember: you’re doing amazing
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